"Freedom is the opportunity to
live your life as you want to live it.”
That’s the first line and
paragraph of the Prologue to Harry Browne’s book, How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
Harry Browne had his book first published in 1973, the year I
was discharged from the U.S. Air Force and regained my freedom. Okay, I have to
be honest, yes, I was bound to a four year active duty contract, but my life in
the Air Force was not only not bad, it was pretty darn good. Of course, I had
to learn to live on next to nothing. But, then again, I had just completed four
years of college, a year of graduate school and a year of part-time teaching
and part-time audio freelancing, so I was quite adept at living on nothing.
I learned about Browne’s book from
another blogger, Glenn Morrissette, who blogs of his own freedom and nomadic
wanderings in his To
Simplify blog. After buying the Kindle version and
reading it, I truly wish I had found Browne’s book when it first came out and I
was leaving the Air Force and embarking on my own life . . . FINALLY.
How different my life would have
ended up had I found this book back then. But, I didn’t and so the woulda,
coulda, shoulda factors don’t matter now, because I didn’t find the book. As a
matter of fact, I wasn’t even looking for books of this nature back then. I was
hell-bent down an entrepreneurial track to build a dynamic, multi-media corporation.
That dream began in graduate school when I was already running my small
(freelance) audio recording business and discovered tape duplication. The paper
that I submitted to complete my master’s degree in Television & Radio was
the business plan I had submitted to a venture capital firm in central New York
to build the first of its kind multi-media production and duplication business
in central New York. Unfortunately, the aforementioned invitation from my Uncle
Sam precluded those plans.
So, while in the Air Force, I
continued planning to venture into the world of multi-media production, tape
duplication and several other related areas of the industry. The commercial
office space was leased, furnished and equipped three months prior to my
five-month early release from the Air Force. So, I simply moved from one
office/studio to another office/studio from one day to the next. I had also
made a commitment to get married and thus, I had drawn the preliminary plan for
my life and launched it.
Now, here’s the irony of it all.
So much of what I read in Browne’s book was really where my head and heart were
subliminally. I didn’t realize it because my vision of freedom was to be in
business for myself and not be someone else’s wage slave. Even my unconscious
views on marriage and relationships didn’t conform to the mainstream,
traditional views of the time, nor did housing and lifestyle. But, I was the
product of a typical, dysfunctional, middle-class American upbringing well
seasoned by a strong religious influence from the American Baptist
denomination. My ways of thinking (which is pretty much why they remained in my
subconscious world) were pretty blasphemous. So, while pushing the edge of
conformity, I still looked and acted fairly mainstream and traditional. Looking
back, I realize I had been fighting my own true nature. I was living a lie by
denying myself my own right to live free as I wanted to, but couldn’t express.
So, 35 years later, I finally
figured out that it was time to follow Shakespeare’s admonition, “To thine own
self be true.” It was another three and a half years after that when I
discovered How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
and realized that all
along it was the basic ideas and concepts committed to writing 38 years earlier
by Browne that described my own true nature.
So, that’s how I got to this
point. Browne’s simple opening line, “Freedom is the opportunity to live your
life as you want to live it.” Immediately resonated. Simple words, but they had
great impact. I relate that to when I finally read M. Scott Peck’s best selling
and classic book, The Road Less Traveled, again, beginning with just a
few simple words that go directly to the heart of the matter, “Life is
difficult.” Sometimes we come to the realization that our lives belong to us
and they are our responsibility to live as we see fit as long as we don’t
infringe on anyone else’s rights or hurt anyone else intentionally.
It’s important at this juncture
that I point out that I don’t agree 100% with everything that Browne lays out
in his book. I also don’t agree with all of Ayn Rand’s philosophies or M. Scott
Peck’s or Eckhart Tolle’s or the human authors’ of the Bible or any other
philosophical authors’, past or contemporary, treatises on how to live my
life. That is one of the most basic fundamental ideas of personal, human
freedom. We are each responsible for living our own lives and should take that
responsibility from the earliest possible time. And, yet, I find it interesting
that there are so many individuals and movements that attempt to convince us
that we must follow their lead because we don’t know what is right for our own
individual lives . . . but they do?
“What makes you happy will
depend upon your own personal nature – which is different in many ways from
that of any other human being.” Harry
Browne
Finding
Freedom in Three Parts
Browne wrote the book in three
parts. Each part is written to give you clear insight into why most people have
little freedom, what each individual can do about gaining the freedom they
desire and then living a free lifestyle.
Part One is about “Why You Are Not
Free.” In this section the author describes fourteen traps people fall into. I
dare say there is no one who hasn’t fallen into several of these traps and most
likely most or all of them during some period in one’s life.
Part Two is about is about “How
You Can Be Free.” In this part of the book Browne discusses how to be free
eleven aspects of your life that restrict, restrain, control, regulate,
legislate and deprive you of the freedom you deserve
Part Three is about “A New Life.”
This is he life you dream of. It’s the life you’d live if you weren’t in many
or all of the fourteen traps and restrained by the eleven aspects of life
controlled by sources and forces outside of yourself.
The Fourteen Traps
Here is a list of the fourteen traps, Brown describes. If you see
a check mark after the trap, that’s because I’ve been in that trap.
- The
Identity Trapa
- The
Intellectual Trap
a
- The
Emotional Trap
a
- The
Morality Trap
a
- The
Unselfishness Trap
a
- The
Group Trap
a
- The
Government Traps
- The
Despair Trap
a
- The
Rights Trap
a
- The
Utopia Trap
- The
Burning Issue Trap
a
- The
Previous-Investment Trap
a
- The
Box Trap
a
- The
Certainty Trap
a
I won’t go into any detail on
these fourteen traps at this time. But, I’m sure you noticed that I didn’t
check The Government Trap or The Utopia Track. Please don’t mistake that for
ego or to make you believe I’m any different then anyone else. Simply stated,
and please don’t ask me to explain why, I have never put a lot of credence in
any level of government. I’ve simply accepted that in any orderly society there
needs to be some level of governance. While I fully realize that the votes I
cast for elected servants (after all, they are supposed to represent me/us and
serve our interests above all else) have seldom ever meant that my views and
attitudes would be served, I am in the trap of believing that it is a civil
responsibility and obligation, almost sacred, if you will. I often state that
my sole reason for voting is to preserve my “bitching” rights. I’ve pretty much
let the bitching rights go by the wayside since even that doesn’t resolve or
change anything. I do everything in my power to avoid any involvement at any
level with any government person, elected, appointed or a “hired hand” – i.e. a
civil servant. In my view, any government involvement is some form of
dependency and that’s the last thing I want.
As far as The Utopia Trap goes,
you’ll need to read that chapter to fully understand what the trap is, but I long
ago gave up on the belief that I – me, personally – must create better
conditions in society before I can be free. Now, some may say that’s a bit
contradictory on my part since I state that my main life mission statement is
to “leave the campground (Earth) a little better then I found it.” But, in
fact, it’s actually quite in line. I don’t feel obligated to create changes
that will impact a local, national or global community in such a way as to make
everyone’s life better in general. I simply mean that as I go about my business
of being as free and happy as I can be, if some of it rubs off on a few others
and their lives’ are better for it, then I’ve accomplished my mission statement
without the idea of creating some utopian society.
“It’s easy to believe that you
came into the world with a prearranged program you must follow. After all, long
before you arrived, other people figured out how you should live, what laws you
should obey, what your obligations are, the whole structure for a “proper”
life. Most people accept that program.” Harry Browne
How You Can Be Free
Now, here are the eleven aspects
of our lives that we need to take control over in order to realize our personal
freedom and happiness according to Harry Browne.
- Freedom
from Government
- Freedom
from Social Restrictions
- Freedom
from Bad Relationships
- Freedom
from Marriage Problems
- Freedom
from Jealousy Problems
- Freedom
from Family Problems
- Freedom
from Business Problems
- Freedom
from Insecurity
- Freedom
from Exploitation
- Freedom
from the Treadmill
- Freedom
from Pretense
Those are almost self-explanatory.
I doubt that there's a single person, including you, who reads this review who
can’t instantly name at least one (and most likely several) situation involving
each of these eleven aspects of daily life.
So, not only are we dealing with
several, if not a lot of the traps from Part One of the book, but we’re also
coping with situations from several or most of these daily life challenges.
And, doesn’t it always seem when you have just put out a fire in one camp
another flares up in another of these camps. What’s the old saying? “There is
never a dull moment.” However, every one of these keeps you from experiencing the
freedom, peace and happiness you seek, or once sought, but may have just given
up and accepted M. Scott Peck’s admonition that “Life is difficult.”
I think it’s remarkable that in a
world with all the advances in technology, housing, transportation, entertainment,
extracurricular activities, medicine and work to mention only a few things that
there are so many different kinds of anti-depressants and anxiety drugs on the
market. But, worse yet, there are so many people taking them on a daily basis
just to cope with day-to-day living. Of course, the darkest side of this
depression and anxiety are those people who reach the point of not coping and
take their own lives. How much of the cause of these senseless suicides are
from external expectations carried on their shoulders from family, jobs,
business and other facets of society?
“It’s too easy to rationalize every part of your
present existence as being necessary –“ Harry Browne
A New Life
At last, Part Three of the book
lays out a basic path for you to take towards creating a new life and attaining
the freedom and happiness you are seeking. I have to add that if you’re already
given up and simply accept life as being that as directed by the many external
forces, then this is likely to have no impact you or your future. However, it
would seem that if you’ve made it this far, you’re most likely hungry for ideas
to help you attain your freedom.
Everyone is different. There is no
exact pattern, steps or course to navigate. You, like everyone else, have to
determine exactly what freedom is for you and how much you are willing to give
up of the “prearranged program” that you were born into and how much freedom
you desire. Like everything else, there are degrees. Some people will always be
content and get by with a small patch of green called their yard, two weeks of
vacation – probably one of which will be staycation taking care of the patch of
green and the security of the batch of sticks and bricks called home. This
might represent 10% from on a scale of 1% to 100%. Others will choose a
completely nomadic life with the least amount of “baggage” – physical,
emotional, intellectual, governmental, professional and so on. Perhaps, they
might aspire to 80% to 90% freedom on that same scale. Others will be somewhere
between those extremes. Whatever degree of freedom one chooses and is willing
to pay the price and make the necessary compromises and sacrifices for is
perfectly fine.
“Don’t settle for less than the
kind of life you need to make it worth having lived.” Harry Browne
In this part of the book Harry
Browne puts you to work. Actually, this is where I really felt closely akin to
Browne (who passed away in 2006). As you go through these pages you’ll discover
just about all of my 12 Steps for Living Free. Interestingly, I didn’t even
hear about this book or Harry Browne until well after I had created my own
12-step program for living free. This is the shortest section of the book, but
it gets down to business and lays our some basic ground rules for changing your
life. Here he discusses:
- Who
Are You?
- Your
Own Morality.
- Is
Your Life What You Want It to Be?
- A
Fresh Start
- A
Fresh Start (Part II)
While this takes you to the
conclusion of the formal parts of the book, there are still nearly 25
additional pages after this with other support information and resources.
Conclusion
Allow me to make just a closing
note. While I bought into Harry Browne’s book nearly 100%, I have to be candid
and say there were things that set me back a few steps. That’s not unusual,
however. That relates to our individuality. It’s perfectly acceptable to find
things that you or I will have differing opinions about. Perhaps, during
successive readings, I will gain a deeper understanding of those issues I
differ with Browne on. So, should you read the book, and I commend it to you,
expect to find things that may jar your thinking and even your sensibilities
somewhat. Don’t stop reading at that point. There is way too much good stuff.
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