Showing posts with label commitments. Show all posts
Showing posts with label commitments. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 11, 2015

"A Journey of a Thousand Miles . . .

. . . begins with the first step." 

These words (or something like these words) were spoken 2,600 years ago by Lao Tzu. It's unlikely you haven't read or heard them before. It's a pretty popular quote.

Here are some questions for you.

What is YOUR journey of a thousand miles?

What is the first step you need to take to begin the journey?

Why haven't you taken it, yet?

What's holding you back or stopping you?

Friday, November 21, 2014

Pimping - Oops, Make That - Primping and Prepping My McVansion For The Next Major Trek.


Well, as the old saying goes (from Robert Burns poem), "The best laid plans of mice and men often go awry." And that's true of my plans to be on the road heading west by October 1st. I had a project from a very long-term and very good client come in about 2 months later than it was supposed to. So, while I could have managed the project on the road, I was dealing with at least one new vendor and that made me a bit more wary.

During parts of the summer and the fall, especially during this two month delay in my departure, I've been getting little things done on the van, making a few changes and modifications and so on. It's like having a house and a vehicle. There's always something that needs to be done. The only difference here is that the house and the vehicle are one and the same. And, as I had some extra time, I'm doing some of the projects I planned for a little further down the road. . . READ MORE

Monday, August 4, 2014

Your Freedom

What would your life be like if you were able to enjoy completely living free?

The catalyst for this post was a comment I received from one of the many professionals I know and continue to interact with from my varied professional career. Here is the comment and I quote it, "Quite the life you're leading, Ed.  I'm envious of your freedom."

I appreciate the comment, but I wonder why so many people are "envious" of my freedom. I honestly haven't done anything all that unique, courageous or heroic. I simply reached a point in my life when I made a conscious choice, a decision to change my lifestyle. Life is all about choices. We've been making them ever since we were infants. You probably don't remember, but you probably made the choice not to eat those gosh awful looking and tasting  strained peas they called "baby food."

So, why would anyone be envious of a choice I made, unless . . . he or she is not happy, content, fulfilled or feel free with the choices he or she has made for his or her life? . . . READ MORE

Monday, June 23, 2014

Ed's Living Free Simple Plan For A Meaningful and Purpose Driven Life



This morning I read a very interesting post by Trent Hamm in his very popular blog (over one million readers every month) The Simple Dollar. The title of the article is "Building a Meaningful Life from the Bottom Up." The title of the article is a link to the actual article if you'd like to read it yourself.

We live in a world that is so busy and so stressful that most people simply keep going, doing all kinds of things they consider necessary until . . . well, until they stop, because they are too stressed, have run out of time and are just too tired to do anymore. So, they call it a day and start the next day doing the same thing and end the same way, day in and day out, including the weekends. Is there any wonder that most people realize little joy, contentment and fulfillment in their lives? They simply do stuff they automatically accept as necessary and important without determining if it serves any meaningful purpose in their lives. . . READ MORE

Friday, July 5, 2013

Tech-Talk: Listings, Comparisons and Reviews of No-Contract Wireless Phone, Text and Data Providers

This is a guest post from Sage Harman, a Living Free . . . reader.

Since living free often means being free from wired services and contractual commitments of most kinds - especially two year wireless contracts - I thought Sage's sage information would be useful to any readers shopping for a new no-contract service.

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Have you ever been surprised to find charges you're not aware of - data fees, miscellaneous surcharges and fees - on your monthly phone or broadband statement? Frustrating, right? Especially if you are managing your usage very carefully. I myself prefer a no-contract service plan. No-contract plans will not tie you down with long-term commitments. If you are not satisfied with the service, you can cancel it and switch to another provider. Granted that many service providers offer discounts on phone units if you choose a contract plan, but say you're not happy with the service, what would you do then? Continue to pay for a service you don't want? With no-contract plans, be it phone or broadband, you have the peace of mind that you pay according to your usage so that if you’re in a tight budget, you can opt to pay the same amount of bill every month.

Major phone carriers today offer no-contract plans. There are different monthly plans that you can choose from depending on your phone usage needs. Obviously, it’s best to choose a phone provider that offers unlimited minutes, text messages, and data usage. If you’re in the market for a new service plan, remember to evaluate all your options before making a decision, do your research. And you can also visit No-Contract-Plans.com for free information on no-contract service plans. They provide specs on various popular no-contract plans, reviews, pros and cons so that consumers will be able to compare plans and find the no-contract plan that best fits their budget, local coverage area, and usage needs. The more informed you are, the more likely you are to make the best decision.

Thank you so much for your consideration! Hope you had a fantastic holiday!

Sage Harman

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I looked at Sage's Web site and she has compiled a lot of useful information and links to a variety of providers and plans. It is a free site. She is also adding new providers as she learns of them. For example, I didn't find Millenicom on her site, so I mentioned it to her and she is adding them as a wireless data provider.


Thanks for the info, Sage.

Monday, April 15, 2013

Living Free Quick Start Program!


Living Free or at least living freer seems to be catching on as a lifestyle trend. I hear more people talking about the idea all the time. I see people taking a variety of steps toward gaining or regaining the personal freedom they want for themselves and their families. If you've been reading this blog for a while, you know that living free is my mantra. We live in a very complicated society with way too much "stuff" that costs too much money to buy, maintain, store and insure. There are so many facets of daily life to attend to, cope with and keep up with. They all breed stress, anxiety and, often, depression. Living free requires making some choices then taking positive action.

Two years ago I developed a 12 Step program for Living Free. You'll find each of the steps described in greater details in subsequent posts. But, let's face it. Like with many things in our life, we are very often in denial. It's one of those "can't see the forest for the trees" kind of things. In other words, we are so wrapped up in the details and minutia of daily life that we may be missing the important and most meaningful things life has to offer.

I also know that how I define living free and my lifestyle choices may not relate to your definition and choices. Each individual is going to have very different ideas about their own life. That is as it should be. Biting off a 12 step program or plan may also sound very ponderous. Heck! Life is already too complicated. Who needs to attempt taking on a 12 step plan that can involve a multitude of choices and changes to implement?

K.I.S.S.

So, let's apply the K.I.S.S. principle to making your life freer. The objective is to feel and live freer then you currently are. The result of living freer should be more harmony and happiness. So, to Keep It Simple Sam or Sally, I've created a simple, effective, 3 step plan to get started down the road to living free.

The three steps are:

1. Simplifying
2. Downsizing
3. Economizing

Here is the hypothesis. If you can simplify your life by reducing the number of details and minutia, downsize by eliminating some thing or some things that drain your time, energy and resources for a minimal useful or psychic return and econimize by cutting out expenditures that have a negative return or, at best, a minimal return for the money spent, then you should begin realizing a freer life and lifestyle. Does that make sense?

1. Simplify

Once again, even these three steps can look daunting if you attempt to eat the entire elephant in one sitting. The most effective way to eat an elephant is one bite at a time and that's the way you should approach making the choices and changes to achieve a living freer lifestyle. Look at it this way. If you can eliminate one daily or weekly function in your overly busy life and that frees up one hour per week, that's 52 hours a year that you will reclaim and can now rededicate to something more meaningful or productive or relaxing and probably all three.

2. Downsize

Can you think of a single thing in you life or in your home that takes up space and/or time to store or maintain? Perhaps it's a closet full of old board games or even obsolete electronic games that have been replaced by something newer. I have absolutely no doubt that there is at least one thing that you can do without. Most likely you can think of many things, but just start with one. If that space was vacated it could be reassigned to something more relevant or, better yet, it should multiply into greater downsizing in the future, possibly even a smaller home or business location.

3. Economize

One of the biggest challenges most everyone faces in our contemporary society is financial issues. You don't even have to listen to the news, cable news analysts, read the newspapers or most any serious periodical to know finances are one of the most significant issues for most people. And, this isn't only a U.S. domestic issue. It's global. The exciting thing is there are so many ways to economize and become more frugal without denying yourself of a very nice lifestyle. In fact, by becoming more frugal, you're going to find the resources to live better and freer. It's like getting a tax free pay raise.

Suppose you can economize by saving $50 per week on various things that may not really be as important as you thought they were or they are recurring expenses that have outlived your interest or their usefulness. This will result in $2,600.00 of tax free found money per year. Will that make your life better and freer? Will you and your family or significant other (if you have them) happier? That found money can do a lot of things for you including getting you out of debt and contributing to a future, financially secure living free retirement, maybe even an earlier retirement.

No Rocket Science Required

So, are you with me on this? I know this sounds simplistic, perhaps, overly simplistic. But, I said we were going to apply the K.I.S.S. principle, so the operative word is simple. Unfortunately, it's often the simple things that are overrun by the complex details of life. Also, I can't tell you precisely what you should simplify, downsize and economize. I don't know your life. However, let's make this perfectly clear. This is not rocket science or brain surgery.

21 Days and $24,000.00 Tax Free

In 1982, I was attending a friend and client's seminar on closing sales. Now, I make it a point, anytime I attend any function, especially an educational function, to gain something from it. One nugget of information or an idea can positively change a person's life. At the seminar, my friend, Dave, discussed a book I had read years before this particular function. The book was Psycho-Cybernetics by Dr. Maxwell Maltz. In the book Dr. Maltz said that it takes 21 days to make or break any habit, good or bad. I was already familiar with this concept, but I decided that was going to be my takeaway from this particular function. I thought about it and finally decided I was going to stop drinking coffee. I didn't have a problem with coffee and I liked coffee. But, I realized that it was a habitual aspect of my life, as it is for the vast majority of adults.

That day in 1982 was the last day I drank a cup of coffee. It's 31 years later. I still like coffee and I can drink it any time I choose to. But, it is now a habit to NOT drink coffee. I like it, but I didn't and still don't need it. I can't tell you how much money not drinking coffee has saved me over the years, but I dare say it's well into the range of several thousand dollars. Just one cup of some kind of premium coffee each day, seven days a week at an average of $3.00/cup is a savings of about $1,095.00 per year.

One Target, But A Triple Score

So, let's examine this. First, this one choice has simplified my life. I don't have to plan stops at any of the variety of places that sell such premium coffees. At one stop per day at about 10 minutes per stop, that's nearly 61 hours per year that I've gained and made my life simpler. Second, I don't have a car full of empty coffee cups and I don't have a coffee maker to take up space, clean and maintain. That is one less thing to complicate my life - by downsizing an appliance and accessories I don't require. Third, I've already economized by nearly $1,100.00, but add to that the savings from not buying coffee grounds and other fixings for making my own coffee. That's an additional savings of probably more than $300.00/year.

So, one lifestyle choice has simplified my life, downsized my "stuff" and given me about a $1,400.00 to $1,500.00 tax free raise each year. Average it out over the years to $800.00 to allow for inflation since 1982 and I've realized about $24,000.00 of simplified life. Not bad, huh? That's the price of a reasonably nice new car or several nice vacations or it could earn some nice dividends in a retirement plan.

And, of course, I can (and have) done this with other facets of my life. They are all personal choices for MY lifestyle and may not relate to your choices or lifestyle. The other significant thing to illustrate the K.I.S.S. principle is that I only chose one facet of my lifestyle and it positively impacted the three steps I'm suggesting you consider for starting to live freer.

K.I.S.S. - A Reprise

Here's another thing to include in this equation. Whatever facets of your life you choose as your first stabs at simplifying, downsizing and economizing, they don't have to be major things. Going back to the elephant illustration, choose small things initially. Believe me, when you take a look at your week, you're going to be saying, "Boy, if I didn't have to do this one thing, my life would be simpler." Or, "If I could just get rid of this thing I never use or wear any longer I'd have more space and feel less cramped." And, "If I cut back on this one expenditure a little each week or I walked to the park or gym instead of driving and burning $3.50 to $4.00 per gallon of gas instead of calories." You'll never notice the loss of whatever it may be. However, you'll sure begin to realize the positive benefits and improvement to your life. You'll realize that you're just a little freer then you were. And that, my friend, is the whole point. You can live a freer and happier life.

Remember what I said about habits taking 21 days to make or break? Once you get in the habit of finding ways to simplify, downsize and economize, you will have developed a proven and positive habit that will serve you for the rest of your life. You may wish to adopt a question I always ask myself when I see things that catch my eye. "Can I live without this?" By learning how to say yes to that question most of the time, you'll have more time, need less space (reduce your carbon footprint, too) and have more money to save, go on vacation, educate yourself and your family with and anything else that will fit into your living free lifestyle. The major result is that you're going to be freer and happier and, heck . . . isn't that the real bottom line, anyway?

Saturday, March 9, 2013

Opportunities - Revisited


I posted an article on March 2, 2013 about "Opportunities." It seemed to hit a chord with some people. Of course, that's always my intention. Interestingly, as I stated in that article, and I quote myself, "I have been blessed with a never-ending stream of opportunities. Many of them changed my life. Many of them took me in directions I had never thought about or contemplated." A few days later, on March 6th, I recalled a phone conversation and linking up with someone on LinkedIn from a small town in Texas back in mid-November of 2011. At that time, I mentioned to this new LinkedIn contact that three years earlier I had left my old life on my ranch in the Shenandoah Valley, wound things down with my book publishing business and began my new life as a location independent, wandering nomad to seek out the next exciting phase and opportunity of my life.

Okay, I've had a few false starts since I left the ranch and the old life. Remember, I said that all opportunities don't necessarily turn into achievements and successes. Some opportunities fail. However, some time ago I adopted an attitude that even when something fails, I win. I ALWAYS win. The simple reason I win is because I always gain valuable experience, knowledge and information I can put to use with something else at a later date. Also, an opportunity may present itself and you're just not ready for it. When you are ready, it may not still be available to you. Believe me, I've missed that boat any number of times over the years.

The opportunity that presented itself nearly a year and a half ago with this gentleman in Texas was one I wasn't ready for at the time. However, I hadn't forgotten about it. So, on March 6th, I emailed an informal proposal to him. The result was that I not only received an immediate response to call him, but when I reviewed his Web site, I discovered that the opportunity had actually expanded.

But, even better, when I called him, we both got excited because not only was the opportunity still open for me, it was considerably better than when I first spoke to him. Moreover, the ideas I brought with me were a perfect match and blended into his program. Additionally, I could continue enjoying my "Living Free . . ." nomadic lifestyle on my own terms. And the final icing on the cake was that, I would be able to help other people, like many of the folks who read this blog, with an opportunity that can provide some financial freedom in their quest for living free.

NOT A Multi-Level Or Network Marketing Business

I'm not proposing anything to you as you read this post. I haven't made any snap decisions to get involved in this opportunity, yet. I have my own due diligence to do before I make any commitments. I recalled taking  advantage of an opportunity back in 1992 with a fellow from Houston, Texas. I flew to Houston. I met with him. I observed his operation. I gained full knowledge of his business and a complete comprehension of his role and mine. And, everythingt worked just as it was supposed to. Unfortunately, an outside third party stuck their nose in and, without full knowledge, caused havoc and, ultimately, the result was one of those "learning experiences" I mentioned earlier.

Interestingly, in this current instance, both the gentleman in Texas and I have mutual friends that we hold in high regard and have a deep respect for. Our mutual friends has vouched for both of us. Additionally, I've done some vetting as has the Texas fellow and we both feel comfortable with the potential for this collaboration.

As an aside, but an important point, over the past 30 years or so I have been involved in a number of multi-level and network marketing businesses. I have a number of friends who have made nice fortunes in the multi-level/network marketing field. While I have not found my fortune in multi-level/network marketing, I can state that I have learned enough from my experiences to consider having earned a PhD in business, marketing, sales and psychology. However, a very important thing for me is that this new opportunity does NOT involve multi-level or network marketing. That is a big thumbs up for me in this case.

So, my next step is to plan a trip to this small town in Texas to meet my new friend and his staff. I'm considering going in April to be there for the launch of a brand new facet of the business. Again, this new facet is right up my alley and in the comfort zone of my own lifetime experience. I'll study his marketing plan, discuss my participation and iron out the details of my participation. I'll also determine how to best blend in my ideas that, while related, are different from his, yet mutually beneficial. Once I've had the chance to spend that time, get to know the players, digest their business and marketing plan and determine how the opportunity can positively interface with my chosen lifestyle, I'll be able to make an intelligent and calculated decision.

Opportunities Are Everywhere

As I've stated before, opportunities are everywhere. You simply have to keep your eyes, ears and mind open to all the possibilities that cross our paths. No! Not every opportunity is right for you (or me). Believe me, my time is priceless and I've wasted too much of it on opportunities that were absolutely wrong for me. I'm sure you've had that experience, too. I've also become much better (time and experience are wonderful teachers) at knowing immediately that NO is the appropriate response right from the start for many opportunities presented to me. I hope you have, too. Again, your time is priceless and you don't want to waste it on any opportunity you know isn't right for you and then possibly missing the perfect opportunity because you're too busy running in place and getting nowhere.

I have only posted this information to show you how opportunities (and sometimes we can even refer to them as serendipities) can appear, seemingly, out of nowhere. Also, as I've noted, sometimes an opportunity isn't right for your consideration at one point in time, but at some future date it could be the match made in heaven.

I'll let you know more in the future about how this opportunity develops for me. I'll let you know if it is right for me and if I'm accepting the new challenge. If I do accept the challenge and become involved in the opportunity, I'll give you a very basic idea of what it entails and how it will impact my life. However, it won't be something I'll try to sell you through this blog. If, like me, you see something interesting, you'll be able to contact me and I'll be able to discuss it person to person with you. We go from there.

 Meanwhile, I know there are many of you looking for opportunities to improve either your present condition or your lifestyle. You're looking for ways to enjoy living freer than you may currently be living. The opportunities are all around you. As I said earlier, keep your eyes, ears and mind open. You may pass a lot of ugly frogs; you may even kiss a few of them before you find your prince or princess. Believe me, if you're taking the steps to live free (there are 12 of them in this blog that you should have read and hopefully are implementing), you are going to be so much further ahead of the majority of the people in the U.S. and the world in realizing personal freedom, happiness and joy. Finding your right vocation or avocation is one of the 12 steps that will help you realize that lifestyle.   

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

Wednesday Musing: Big Questions . . .


How much of life do we take for granted? As I look at the harried lives that seem to be more the norm than not, I have to raise one of the really big questions of life - "Is this all there is?"

This morning about 300 people boarded a high-speed ferry boat from the central New Jersey area to Wall Street near Battery Park on the southern tip of Manhattan Island. Today was the first day the ferry was back in service since Superstorm Sandy devastated this region two and a half months ago. The folks riding that ferry, scheduled to dock at about 8:45 AM, were all commuting to their jobs. Little did they know that more than 60 passengers on that ferry would be carried off the small ship on stretchers, backboards and gurneys. Most of them would be treated for non-life threatening injuries, but at least two of them, one especially, will most likely die in the hospital.

Just before this past Christmas a few hundred children went to school just like any other day. Their parents were managing their busy lives and going about their daily routines. Out of nowhere, a young man, who had never been a threat to anyone before, ends the lives of 20 innocent children and seven innocent adults (all women, interestingly), including his own mother and then takes his own life.

The list could go on, but you get the point. It could be a sudden and violent event such as those described or it could be being handed a pink slip and notified that your services are no longer needed by your employer of, perhaps, one or more decades. It could be finding out your house is underwater and you can no longer afford the payments and it goes into foreclosure. It could be a medical diagnosis that wasn't expected. Perhaps, you're handed divorce papers that you weren't expecting. 

All of these bring about the Big Question - "Why?"

There are lots of big questions to consider in life, but do we? Are we too busy to deal with these questions until something transpires that forces us to face one or more of them? Do we take too much of life for granted? Do we have the attitude that something like this will never happen to me? Are we just avoiding the Big Questions because they seem too incomprehensible? It's probably some or all of the above.

What are some of the really Big Questions we never seem to want to or get around to addressing? Here are only a few to ponder:

What is love REALLY?
Am I really in-love or am I still in-love?
Why am I really working at this job or for this employer?
Am I or what does it take to be a good parent?
What does freedom, especially personal freedom, really mean to me and am I really free?
How do I define happiness and am I really happy?
Why is life so complicated?
Am I prepared to die, especially since I don't know when that may happen or under what circumstances?

I have created a long list of Big Questions and these are only a few of them. I was inspired to think about this by my friend, John Applegath in Durham, New Hampshire and author of the book, Working Free: Practical Alternatives to the 9 to 5 Job. John posed these questions to people in discussion groups in the Durham and Portsmouth, New Hampshire area.

Why do most people reach a point in their lives (and it's possible all people reach the point, some may just be too busy to even realize it) where they ask the question that I posed at the beginning of this musing - "Is this all there is?" Some of you who are old enough may remember the song, sung by the late Peggy Lee, that asked this question. This point in time is also considered a "mid-life crisis" and some people have more than one of these events. 

I dare say that the Big Questions are the questions that really define life and who we are and who we become. I'm not sure that there are any concrete answers to most of the Big Questions. Maybe that's why we are either afraid to ask them and seek answers for ourselves. Or, we choose to avoid them because in the business of the day to day routines and ruts of life we don't have time to incorporate "truth" for our individual lives into our lives.

To truly live free these questions need to become part of our self-dialogue and our dialogue with others who may be able to shed light on aspects of life we can't seem to grasp. It is my firm belief that we all need less than we have, can live simpler, less complicated lives than we do and ultimately achieve a better understanding of what this very short period of time  - birth to death - is really all about and how to get the most out of it.

Just saying . . . 

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Tuesday Thoughts - Are You On the Wrong Path To Success?



I received an email from John Williams in England this morning. John runs a Web site titled Screw Work,Let's Play. His question was, "What if everything you’d been told about careers, work, and success was wrong?"

Have you ever thought about it? Has all the information you've been taught all your life from childhood about working hard, setting goals, mapping out careful career plans, staying focused on the target, etc. been misinformation? Sure! That's what they tell you in high school and college and graduate school. That's what all those engineers, MBA's, doctors, lawyers, etc. do. Most business profs, coaches and consultants will have you setting short term and long term goals and creating detailed business plans. But, what if that isn't really the way the most successful people become truly successful?

WOW! Wrap your mind around that one. Think about it - suppose Bill Gate, Steve Jobs, Michael Dell, Richard Branson, JK Rowling, Sergey Brin and Larry Page, Mark Zuckerberg and so many others who have literally changed the world - had followed that advice and course of action. Let's see, no Microsoft or Windows or Word and so much more. No Apple, Mac computers, iPods, iPads, iPhones or iTunes. No Dell Computers. No Virgin Records and Virgin Airlines. No Harry Potter. No Google. No Facebook.

I don't know Branson's, Rowling's, Brin's or Page's educational backgrounds, but Gates, Jobs, Dell and Zuckerberg are all college drop outs. They have college graduates, many with advanced degrees working for them. So, obviously, college or advanced education is not necessarily a precursor for success.

If you look at their path to success it doesn't look like a well defined line from a starting point to becoming a successful billionaire. More realistically it looks like a tangle of curves, detours, wrong turns, course corrections and experiences. And here's the most important part. They all did something they absolutely loved doing. They actually had no idea where they would end up. They simply lived free, did what they enjoyed, turned them on, excited them and made them happy.

Of course, not everyone will experience the extraordinary financial wealth these people achieved. But, since life is short and there is so much to do and experience, why do so many people - (you?) - follow this prescribed path and conditioning that locks you in, deprives you of your freedom and happiness - while waiting for some magical chronological age, like 65 to retire and, if you're still healthy, have the finances, the energy and even the dreams any longer, do the things you wanted to do when you first started dreaming about them.

You can click on the link above to go to John William's Web site. He's selling an on-line course and I'm not promoting his course. I'm not an affiliate of John's. I just like the way he thinks. If you go there and decide to buy into his program, that's your choice. I'm simply asking you the question John asked, "What if everything you’d been told about careers, work, and success was wrong?"

Friday, December 7, 2012

A Free-Range Human in a Caged World


That is the title of a new book written by my good friend Roger Gilbertson. Roger and I are kindred spirits in many ways, yet live very different lifestyles. Like me, Roger is a true genius except Roger really is a genius and I'm just an average genius (yes, my tongue is in my cheek as I label myself a genius). I've honestly lost count of all the degrees and certifications Roger has earned, plus, he's a retired U.S. Navy Rear Admiral. I dare say this man has allowed no grass to grow under his feet during his 76 year lifetime. If you should choose to order Roger's book, A Free-Range Human in a Caged World: From Primalization Into Civilization," from Amazon.com, and I highly recommend that you do, you'll get a very clear picture of this free-range human I'm humbled to call my friend.


Roger honored me with the privilege of reading an early manuscript of his book and he sent me a pdf file of the final manuscript as it was going to press. One of the things I like about Roger Gilbertson as a "free-range human" is that he is unconventional. I might even go a bit further and say he is a non-conforming conformist. What I mean by that is that Roger had a distinguished career as a U.S. Naval Reserve officer. It's no simple path to reaching the rank of Rear Admiral (or the equivalent in the other services). Just think about the fact that a person has to live under the civil and criminal laws of the land as a U.S. citizen PLUS anyone in the military must also live under the UCMJ (Uniform Code of Military Justice). The UCMJ, while in many ways is parallel to the U.S. civil and criminal codes, is also much stricter with more severe penalties for infractions. So, being a non-conformist in civilian society is a challenge enough, doing so under two systems of laws is a huge accomplishment.

You will also be set back a bit by Roger's writing techniques. First, understand that whatever he undertakes, he learns everything he can about it - including, in this case, book writing, composition and publishing. Frankly, my book editors from my publishing days would have a field day with Roger's manuscript. I doubt that a sentence would go by without being marked up. But, Roger writes as he thinks and speaks. Having the great fortune of knowing Roger for a number of years, I've come to appreciate how he thinks and speaks. Reading his book is like listening to him talk to me. As a publisher, I would have made Roger play by the "publishing rules." Thankfully, I'm not his publisher and I'm totally okay with his free-range writing style.

The book is 163 pages long according to my pdf copy of the manuscript. Amazon shows it as 170 pages in paperback. Roger writes like a machine gun with bursts of thoughts, ideas, philosophies, experiences and recollections. There are two tables of contents in the book. The first one is a single page of what he terms as a Summary Contents and shows the front matter, the two parts with the 14 chapters and the back matter. Both the front matter and the back matter have lots of interesting input. The second table of contents he calls Full Contents and it goes for 7 pages (in the pdf manuscript version) and gives a page by page list of every chapter and every topic covered on a page. The pages may have as few as one topic to as many as five topics. Everything seems to follow a path and appears organized, even though some of the thoughts and ideas may feel a bit random at times. Roger had a plan.

Part one is only two chapters but is about being a Free-Range Human and Part two is about a Caged World. I dare say that between the covers of this book, Roger Gilbertson covers so many facets of the human experience comparing how we reached this caged world, as he terms it, state of civilization from the free-ranging hunting-gathering bands during the very primal period of human existence. I also dare say that anyone who can't find some relationship with Roger and the facets of the human experience is hopelessly trapped in the caged world.

But, listen, I could go on and on and still not scratch the surface of this book. Personally, I find it fun, enlightening and thought provoking. For someone like me, who promotes a philosophy of living free or at least as free, unrestricted, unlimited, unfettered and uncontrolled as is reasonably possible in the civilized, caged world of today, this book is a bit of fresh air. Am I a bit biased? Without question. I am lucky enough to count Roger Gilbertson as a personal friend and fellow seeker.

Good fortune is being able to include as many interesting, experienced people as friends as possible. I learn from each of them like my late friends, Charlie "Tremendous" Jones and Zig Ziglar (who passed away last week), both noted motivational and inspirational speakers and authors. Or my friends, Jerry Coffee and Charlie Plumb, both seven year guests of the "Hanoi Hilton" prisoner of war camp during the Vietnam War. Or my friends Suzy Sutton,  Barbara Glanz and the late Rosita Perez, authors, speakers and women who worked their way from humble beginnings to speaking, inspiring and training some of the most powerful people in the world. And, then there are those I know who inspire, enlighten and mentor me, who few people have heard of, but everyday they do miraculous things that make this caged world a better place. It is my mission to remain as "free-ranging" as possible and push the barriers of this caged world as much as possible, thanks to Roger Gilbertson.

Get the book. I know you'll gain lots of perspective and live a much freer and happier life.   

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Wednesday Musings - A Day to be Thankful


It's the day before Thanksgiving in the U.S. Tomorrow families and friends will gather together to share time with each other for a long standing holiday and tradition. Most of us will be in some warm, comfortable environment, either a home or restaurant. Some may be at a Salvation Army Hall or a mission or a homeless shelter or a temporary housing situation. Most of us have much to be thankful for. Too many of us probably can't begin to make a list of all we have and we take it for granted.

In my book, the thing we should all be thankful for in the U.S. is the right and privilege we have to define and enjoy our personal freedom as we choose. Maybe some folks don't realize how precious this is and maybe you've chosen to be in a situation that doesn't make you feel very free, but in virtually every case, that's a choice we each made in some way or another.

I would ask that as you spend the day, wherever you are in the U.S. and however you spend it, please remember all those who are not in their homes this Thanksgiving due to Hurricane Sandy, the wild fires and any of the other natural calamities that have befallen our brothers and sisters. Remember our military and government personnel deployed around the world, the majority of them separated from their families. Remember those who may be homeless by choice or by circumstance. Be thankful for the many people who are volunteering to help those who are less fortunate than themselves and doing their best to make Thanksgiving a better day for those less fortunate folks.

I am thankful that those in important public service, health and welfare and convenience jobs are there working for us like the police, fire, EMT, hospital, nursing facility and gas station/convenience stores personnel.

I am not terribly enthusiastic about the entire Black Friday concept, but commerce is what make this country great and free. However, I am extremely disappointed in this intrusion into the traditional holiday by so many of the major chain stores opening on Thanksgiving Day. It really bothers me to see news footage of people camping outside of these huge box stores and foregoing time with family, friends and one simple day of tradition to fight over buying more "stuff." That's a sad statement on our society and one reason people in other countries have some negative attitudes about us. I'm totally disappointed in the management of these retail chains who are requiring their employees to leave their family and friends all for the sake of the bottom line. Shame on you! But, that's just my opinion. You won't find me there spending any money.

And to my readers around the world, I hope, if you don't have your own "Day of Thanks" holiday, you will share in ours, count your blessings and be thankful for your lives and what you have. If you are able to realize your personal freedom and live the life you choose to, I hope you are doing so. If you are not as free or don't have as many opportunities as others, that you will continue to strive toward achieving your dreams and personal freedom. 

I also wish you safe and uneventful travels to and from your destination if you'll be away from home. My best to you all. 

Saturday, November 17, 2012

We Will Fight For The Right To Be Free!



I just returned from the local supermarket here at Base Camp West Virginia. I was running in to pick up a couple items I couldn't find at the local Wally World (yep, WalMart carries a lot of stuff, but they don't carry everything). I walked in this supermarket with exactly two items I needed. I knew where one item was since I've purchased it there before. The other item I was looking for is something I wouldn't normally buy, but was getting it to save a friend a trip, if I could.

Now, most commercial establishments have some form of background music playing - it's often referred to as Muzak, after the trademarked name of a generations old commercial music service. Alternately, it's referred to as elevator music, affectionately named for the typically, lush, instrumental music one endures during an elevator ride. There are psychological reasons for providing this music service to patrons of all kinds of businesses whether on an elevator, walking through a store, sitting in a doctor's office or calling your dentist on the phone and being lullabied to distract the caller from realizing how long they have been sitting on hold.

Often an establishment will have a choice of musical genre when contracting with a commercial music service provider. One might be listening to the lush strings of Yanni or the 101 Strings, the Classic rock songs and ballads from the 50's and 60's, smooooooth jazz, Beatlemania, a classic country collection and so on. My experience in the supermarket today was a bit jarring, yet, for me, particularly inspirational.

Sing Our Own Song

I was listening to the lyrics of a song composed and originally recorded by UB40, a 1986 song titled Sing Our Own Song. But, it was the main chorus lyric that was repeated over and over that got my attention. The line went, We will fight for the right to be free. At first, I thought I was listening to an American patriotic protest song that I'd never heard before. But, after a little research I discovered some interesting facts.

First, UB40 is a British rock/pop/reggae group founded in 1978 and not really coming on the scene until 1979 and about 1980 in the U.S. It is an ethnically diverse group of friends who were all born (apparently) and raised in Birmingham, England. That in itself was a reason that I wasn't familiar with the group or much of their music since, perhaps, like many people, I was no longer as interested in the newest generation of music. I heard it on the radio, but I didn't pay much attention to it. By 1980 I was 35 years old, married, a father and deeply involved in four businesses. My head was someplace other then the current pop music scene.

The reason I had not become familiar with this particular song is because it never reached any of the U.S. music "charts" that follow how popular any given piece of music is. Most countries have their own music charts, but if a piece of music doesn't hit the U.S. charts, few people will have heard it here. It's apparently been covered (recorded by) at least a few other artists, but none who I can honestly say I've followed. So, all that in mind, this was like a breath of fresh air to me. I wondered, as I walked through the supermarket taking care of my business, if any of the other customers or the store employees were listening to the lyrics.

In fact, the song was not written about the U.K. or the U.S. It was written about and for the fight for freedom of the nonwhite, South African population who were oppressed by segregation laws under Apartheid. Fortunately and finally Apartheid was officially renounced in 1990, though the full impact didn't take effect until 1994 when Nelson Mandela was the first black African to be elected in a free election as the president of the Republic of South Africa.

Non-partisan, Apolitical Freedom Lover

I've stated this several times. This blog is not and does not indulge itself in political rhetoric other then how it may impact the personal rights and personal freedoms of myself and, in some manner, you, the reader. The reason that song caught my attention in the supermarket today is that, and maybe it's just me and maybe it's just because I'm base camped in a rural, heartland area of the U.S., but I hear more and more people talking about freedom and personal freedom.

Freedom isn't just unique to the America. Freedom is something that is part of the human DNA. We don't have an edge on the freedom market. And, freedom isn't defined in any one specific way. We have a very unique form of freedom in the U.S. As I listened to that song, thinking at that time that it was written as a patriotic and inspirational anthem for the U.S., I thought about Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria, Libya, Egypt, Israel and the Palestinians, others in Africa, Asia, parts of Europe and the former Soviet Union block countries - and even Cuba and South America. Freedom is a very fragile commodity. I've used and, probably, you have, too, the overused adage that "Freedom isn't Free." Actually, it is free. Unfortunately, there are both powers of good and evil in this world that usurp freedom from the individual to who it belongs by birthright.

Our society and our world are unbelievably complex. There no longer is (and may never have been) a defined line dividing black and white. I often find myself siding with those I would normally not side with because of that gray area. Of course, in other instances, I side with the other side of the line. I dislike labels and titles. I was never particularly enamored with being the "president," "CEO" or most other designations of distinction and authority. I felt separated from everyone else. Likewise, I do not like being labeled a "conservative," "liberal," Republican or Democrat. In truth, when I take any of the quizzes that determine where one fits into the political landscape, I usually come out smack in the middle of the Libertarian territory. That's probably no surprise to you. But, in fact, I really don't want to carry that label, either. What I want to be known as is an "independent," free-thinking individual.

My philosophy and mantra with this blog is all about personal freedom and living free. I write about the things that are working for me and are important to me as one individual doing my best to maintain and live free in a world and, more specifically, a society that self-proclaims being a free society. Supposedly, because we have some form of democratic electoral process, this is a shining light of our freedom. Yet, in more and more ways, our very democratic systems are beginning to fail us more as individuals. Perhaps that's because we are becoming more and more dependent on a government structure that believes it can, under its own terms, do better and more for us as individuals than we can do for ourselves.

Personal Freedom, Personal Choices, Personal Responsibility

I have to question this idea when we have national disasters like Katrina, seven years ago and Super Storm Sandy a few weeks ago. Without questions, these are horrible disasters. But, this is also part of the nature of living on this planet. We can't legislate away these events. Neither we or the government have any control over the weather. I won't even touch on the volatile subject of "human created" climate change. If we go back to the historical accounts of the Bible, people were taught about the difference between building a house on a rock or on sand. People want to be free, great! They made a free choice to build their homes in areas very prone to violent natural events.

That was, as I said, a FREE choice. But, after the disaster, how responsible should those who built their homes on the rock be for those unfortunate people in the path of Sandy? These are rhetorical questions. I certainly believe we should reach out and help our friends and fellow countrymen. But, I've already read several articles by various scientific authorities suggesting that the damaged and demolished homes and businesses shouldn't be rebuilt in the same locations because it's going to happen again and again. But, they will. The same is true for the Gulf states, especially the New Orleans area. And, they have. We can say the same for people who build homes in areas that are prone and known to have severe forest and brush fires, mudslides, earthquakes, volcanic eruptions, floods, hurricanes, tornadoes, etc.

I don't have any problem with anyone making a free choice to live in these places, but when someone makes a free choice for themselves, should they not also be accepting whatever the possible consequences of that choice are? That is really what personal freedom is all about. It's interesting to note that the largest population densities, not only in the U.S. but in countries on every continent, seem to be where many, if not most or the worst natural disasters occur, often repeatedly. I guess it goes without saying it's not nice to fool with Mother Nature.

Another topic dealing with freedom in the news of late is our involvement in the Middle East. The loss of four Americans in what is, variably, described as a cover-up, incompetence or political posturing during an important election cycle. This has slid down the chute to the question about "intelligence" and is there any? And then we look at the concept of privacy and any expectation of privacy. Personally, General Petraeus and General Allen and their dalliances are really of no interest to me. However, the invasion of our privacy is a big question.

I read an article this morning in the New York Times about this privacy issue. I found it interesting that some, supposed, authority on such matters stated that we mere mortals don't have to concern ourselves with the FBI doing warrant-less taps on our phones and tracking and reading our emails. Yet, according to other authorities, the National Security Agency (NSA), another "secret" intelligence organization, has software that listens or can listen to virtually every phone call and scan every email and text in the U.S. and going out of and coming into the U.S. Of course, they can't actually listen to or read every communication. But, the software is designed to recognize sensitive words or terms and raises a red flag that can trigger your phone or emails to be monitored. So, beware of what you say, even in jest, on the phone or in emails or texts.

This goes on and on. There are video cameras watching where you are driving, where you are shopping, what you're doing when you use an ATM and walking through a parking lot to mention only a few. You can be tracked by which cell phone towers your phone is pinging. GPS can pinpoint your location within a few feet. You can go on Google Earth and look at where you are from above or at street level. Without question, all of these technologies can be used for your convenience, safety and security and that's exactly how they are sold to you. It's the guy in the white hat convincing you of the immense personal value of all this. But, there is also a guy in a black hat and he also has a set of controls to all this technology and anytime he chooses, he can use if for whatever nefarious purposes he deems worthy.

Sure, we could get paranoid about all of this, but that doesn't change anything and just makes our lives more stressful. The best thing we can do is to make careful, researched choices about our personal freedom. Use the technology to our best advantage. Do your best to find ways to stay beneath the radar and off the grid as much as is possible and reasonable in your own determination. And, remember the words of the song, We will fight for the right to be free.

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Wisdom from another Blogger - the Jet Set Citizen


One of the blogs I follow is that of a fellow, John Bardos, and his wife who sold their successful business in Japan not quite three years ago and became "location independent." In other words, like me and others like me, they are nomadic and don't have a fixed base of operations other then his family in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. They may choose to stay in one location somewhere in the world for some duration ranging from a few weeks to several months, but then they move on.

John said two things that caught my attention. One of them was in one of his latest posts. I quote him here because I couldn't express it any better. He was discussing the possibility of settling down again at some point in the future. They have been enjoying this lifestyle for 33 months at this point.

One of my biggest fears of settling down is going back into consumer mode. I don’t think people realize just how much of their lives are dictated by materialism. Think about it for a moment. How much of your life is spent buying, evaluating, maintaining and cleaning possessions? If you are not shopping or caring for possessions, it’s very likely that you’re either working to pay for those possession or you’re watching TV, where you’re made to feel inadequate for not owning the most recent fad. It’s a sad fact that most of us are consumers, not citizens. By the way, everyone I have this conversation with, thinks they do not consume excessively. It’s always a problem that others have.

I'll let you ponder his thought, but I believe he is making a very true commentary and basically states my philosophy pretty well.

He also pointed out something else when I was reading on another part of his site. Interestingly, and I'm sure it caught my attention because I've been putting some thought into this very thing myself. I guess I'd have to say my personal motivation for this thought process is watching the devastation caused by the recent Super Storm, Sandy, who destroyed thousands of homes and tens of thousands (perhaps, millions) of lives recently as she impacted about 23 states, nearly half of the United States.

Here again is John's thought that inspired me.

Another direction I’m going to subtly push on this site is social good. Money and new possessions are nice, up to a certain point, but after that, they don’t bring any lasting fulfillment or meaning. In fact, my excessive consumerism actually got in the way of doing what I most wanted with my life.  To that end, I will be spending more time volunteering and trying to have a positive impact on the lives of others.

John definitely made a strong impression with this short paragraph. I enumerated my years of experience and the knowledge and abilities I've accumulated during my lifetime. But, life is finite. There will be an end of the road for everyone of us. Sure, I could go back to generating large amounts of revenue and, unfortunately, as John suggested, probably fall back into the trap of consumerism or materialism, pretty much the same thing. But, here's the question. What degree of fulfillment will I have when I die. I very strongly believe the simple adage that "he who dies with all the toys . . . is still DEAD!" Since my personal lifetime mission statement is "to leave the campsite (Earth) better then I found it" - one of the things I learned from my short tenure as a Boy Scout, then rather then adorn myself with all the trappings of "success" in the form of "stuff," how much more fulfilled will I be knowing that I made the lives of others better. As I said, Sandy, the Super Storm, has really made me think hard about this.

John Bardos has some wonderful ideas, information and philosophy on his Web site and in his blog where he interviews other "location independent" and U.S. ex-patriots living and traveling the world. Many are volunteering their services to help others. I've added John's Web site to my Blog Roll, but you can have immediate access to it by simply clicking right here - Jet Set Citizen



Friday, November 2, 2012

Are You Too Busy To . . .



talk with friends and family on the phone, by email or in person?

watch a movie either on TV or in the theater?

spend quality time with your spouse, significant other, children?

enjoy reading a good book just for pleasure?

prepare a special meal of one of your favorite dishes and savor it?

sit outside with a cup of coffee or tea, a glass of wine or some fine Scotch, bourbon or brandy and watch the sun rise or set?

visit a park, shopping mall, the downtown of a small town and simply people watch?

go on a road trip, tour, cruise or climb Mt. Everest?

practice the lost art of doing absolutely NOTHING?

to LIVE the ONLY LIFE you have - NOW - IN THE PRESENT?

You can add your own questions to this list. I'm sure there are many things you can think of that you often tell people that you're too busy to do.

Whose Fault Is It That We're Too Busy?

In our society there is never enough time. Of course, whose fault is that? I'm sure you'd like to blame your job or family responsibilities or commitments of all kinds you make to others that you really didn't want to do and don't want to do, but you continue to make these commitments. These commitments can be to all kinds of things of value like to your church or religious organization, to the PTA if you have kids in school, to the community theater in your town, to the Boy (Cub) Scouts, Girl (Brownies) Scouts and similar as a scout leader. Perhaps you are involved in local politics or as an officer of your home owners association. Maybe you're a little league baseball, soccer or football coach. Again, you can add as many things to this list as you can think of that impact your personal time.

So, here's the question. If you don't do all these things that take up your time, will the world come to an end? Will our society crumble if you choose taking time for yourself as opposed to being committed to so many outside drains on your time, energy and resources? I've said this before in this blog and I'll say it again, this life is not a dress rehearsal. This is the performance of a lifetime - YOUR lifetime. And here's the kicker, none of us know when the curtain is coming down on our performance.

Oh, you say, I'll get to it when the family is grown and out of the nest. Well, in the typical family of three children, that's between 22 and 30 years of your "performance." Or, you'll say, well, I'll have plenty of time to do that when I retire. Well, there goes 40 to 45 years of your performance - IF you are in a position to retire when you think you'd like to or if you even make it to retirement age. It doesn't matter what the commitment is that you've made, it all requires time, energy and resources.

Self-centered or Honest?

So, am I saying you should be totally self-centered and not participate in any of the other activities I've mentioned or the many more you can add to the list? I'm not suggesting that at all. I simply asked the question are you too busy? How can you answer that question honestly? Remember, living free means we get to make all our own choices and decisions about out own time, energy, resources and life. If you feel you're too busy, there is absolutely no one to blame for that except yourself and you can change it.

I remember, many years ago, when a friend and colleague in a multi-level marketing business I was involved in for a number of years asked me to do something for him. When I arrived at the meeting we were both attending, he asked me if I had done whatever it was he had requested me to do. I hadn't and I replied with a pretty typical answer (excuse), "No! I didn't have time to do it." He responded to me, saying, "Don't you mean you didn't MAKE time to do it?" The truth is, I didn't make the time because I was too busy doing too many other things, any number of which were very likely not as important as fulfilling his request. And to be brutally honest, I'd have to say I really didn't want to do what he requested, so I didn't make time to do it. Why didn't I just say, "No, I don't choose to do this." rather then accepting an obligation I didn't want to fulfill?

I don't know about you, but I've spent most of my life being too busy. I hate that some of us allow five, six and seven decades go by before we figure out that we're too busy because we don't MAKE the time to do the things we want to do for ourselves.

Grandparents Exploited

I've dated a few women over the years who were delightful and wonderful company. They were grandparents (to be honest, I'm not yet a grandparent). Everything they wanted to do had to be arranged around their children's and grandchildren's schedules.  It might have been babysitting, attending two or three soccer games in a day once or twice a week, picking the grandchildren up after school, watching them while the parents went away on a business trip or vacation for two. Basically, while I very much enjoyed these women and their companionship, I wasn't interested in having my life and my planning of events I believed that we'd both enjoy sharing to be controlled by their children and grandchildren.

These were choices these lovely women made and I make no judgment about their choices. However, their choices shouldn't impact my choices. In some instances, women I've dated had no problem with me getting to know their friends, families and even ex-husbands, but they didn't want to spend time with my friends, family or former spouse in situation such as a family wedding or similar. So, I went alone. My choice.

Maybe you're a grand parent or a parent. And, okay, I'm not. Would I feel any differently if I were? Well, to be frank and honest, NO! I wouldn't feel different. Once again, as a grandparent, you (and I) have raised a family. We've sacrificed a significant part of our lives. Now, the way the system works is that if our offspring choose (again, parenthood is a choice) to have and raise a family, that is their choice and shouldn't deter me from enjoying the natural freedom we are all born with. I am certainly not saying that grandparents shouldn't spend time or want to spend time with their grandchildren. I'm simply saying that, again, how much time and when you want to spend that time should be YOUR choice and not controlled by your offspring or the grandchildren.

We are too busy because we allow others to impose their needs, desires and will on us. I've even seen offspring use grandchildren as pawns in a game of extortion. If you don't fulfill our needs and requirements, we won't allow you to see your grandchildren. That's criminal and exploitation at its worst. I've even seen offspring exploit their parents for the inheritance long before the parents pass away.

Exploitation, Excuses or Choices

There are many things that we can use as excuses for being too busy, but everyone of them is of our own choosing. So, let's think about this realistically. I'm speaking to young people beginning in their late teens, 20's and up and those from my age bracket and beyond. If you don't feel free and you're too busy, whose responsible for that? Correct! You are. You made the choices. If you want to live freer and gain the most personal fulfillment from the "performance of your lifetime," who can make that happen? Correct, again! YOU can.

The world or our society or your town or your neighborhood or your family is not going to crumble around you because you choose to be freer and enjoy this limited engagement of this play called "My Life." Sure, some may be inconvenienced, but that's really and truly NOT your problem. They are responsible for their own lives and the choices they've made. To be sure, there will be a lot of people, especially family and friends, who will do their best to lay guilt trips on you. Once again, if you accept those guilt trips, that's your choice. But, you are not responsible for their lives, challenges, schedule conflicts, responsibilities, obligations, freedom or happiness. Those are theirs to bear based on choices they made. They are performing in their own limited engagement of "Their Lives."

Just Say NO!

Learn the very difficult act of saying "NO!" when someone, anyone, regardless of their relationship to you, requests, expects or demands something of you that is not your responsibility whether it's at work, in the community, family or whatever. You'll see that, magically, whatever it is, will still get accomplished if it's that important . . . without you.

Take that exciting cruise or tour that is a once in a lifetime opportunity over the holidays. Learn to use Skype and share the holiday through the magic of the Internet with the kids and grandkids from wherever you may be. Go enjoy Disney World and Epcot center (you're still a kid no matter what your age) on your schedule. Watch those sunrises and sunsets. Read those books you've been putting off for months or years. Go see those movies that catch your attention or just have your own James Bond (or any other) movie marathon at home with the phone turned off. Learn the lost art of doing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING . . . because you can.

And, whatever you do, DON'T buy into guilt - read or reread Step 8 on Relationships and Step 9 on Amends (and guilt).

There is never a good reason to be "too busy" to enjoy the limited engagement of "My Life," the performance of YOUR lifetime. 

Wednesday, October 31, 2012

The Storm of our Lifetime


I'd like to say it's all over but the shouting about Sandy the Storm, but that would be inaccurate since the substantial remnants of Sandy's siege on the east coast of the U.S. are still wreaking havoc on other parts of the U.S. This storm has been called "The Perfect Storm," "The Storm of a Lifetime," a "Super Storm" and a "Storm of Historical Proportions." In all, the highest estimate I've heard so far is that Sandy has impacted some 23 states and at least a couple provinces of Canada and claimed at least 40 lives in the U.S., so far.

I'm glad I made if back to my WV "base camp" from my Chicago revenue generating road trip before Sandy unleashed her fury. Columbus, Ohio is now engulfed in the storm and has about two feet of snow from the blizzard portion of the snow. Chicago and other Indiana, Wisconsin and Michigan communities on the shores of Lake Michigan are facing 25 - 30 foot waves, perhaps, the largest waves ever on Lake Michigan.

Of course, the reality is that Sandy was only one third of the equation that created this "Perfect Storm." Sandy formed in the Caribbean. After hitting Jamaica, the western part of Haiti and the eastern part of Cuba came up the Atlantic coast through the Bahamas, taking 69 lives in the process, ultimately to make landfall on the southern New Jersey coastline also known to those of us who grew up there as the Jersey shore. However, as a simple Category 1 hurricane, she would have created enough damage and destruction. But, how ever nature creates these kinds of events, Sandy joined forces with a large Nor'easter and an Arctic cold front coming in from the west to create a storm, with Sandy as its center that had winds and rain spanning about a thousand miles from Sandy's eye.

Wow! If we can believe the meteorologists and the historical records, a weather event of this nature has never happened before in recorded history, certainly not in the U.S. but possibly in the world. While the winds were nowhere near as devastating as those of a Category 4 or 5 hurricane, in this unfortunate circumstance a destructive force so large and menacing has just never happened before. Concurrently there were portions of the U.S. from North Carolina to Maine being pounded by record breaking tidal surges, winds strong enough to rip off the roofs and other parts of man made structures and dump two and three feet of snow in blizzard conditions in the higher elevations. Add to this that the main body of Sandy, the hurricane, itself, came in just prior to high tides and the tides were higher then normal due to the influence of the full moon.

Now, believe me, I do not fully understand all of the elements involved in this unholy concoction of meteorological occurrences. I just know that it was the weirdest storm I can ever recall and I've experienced the direct impact of numerous hurricanes, nor'easters and blizzards during my lifetime, just never all at the same time.

It was just three years ago when we experienced a winter weather event that has affectionately (???) become known as Snowmageddon that involved a blizzard with over two feet of snow in the mid-Atlantic region in December, something that hadn't happened since around 1925. That was followed by a double whammy of two back to back blizzards with one day between the two storms that left around five feet of snow on the ground where I was at in the Shenandoah Valley at that time.  I began to believe I had somehow moved back to Syracuse, New York where I saw that kind of snow in 1967/68/69 while attending graduate school at Syracuse University.

Now, on the good side of my experience with this Super Storm, my base camp, located in the small, rural town of Keyser, West Virginia seemed to be in a small, safe spot. Yes, we saw some heavy rain. Yes. We saw some winds probably in the 30 mph range with some gusts that probably topped 50 mph. Yes. We saw some frozen precipitation. But, the rain was never torrential and it never came in sideways. The winds were within coping range and, so far, to the best of my knowledge there was little serious property damage in this area. The frozen precipitation was in the form of sleet and never turned into a couple feet of snow. The temperature was in the low forties, so it was never cold enough to sustain snow and the sleet was mainly slush.

We did lose power at about 9:20 PM Eastern Time, but we were prepared for it, so we didn't experience any significant discomfort or inconvenience during the powerless period that ended about 12 to 13 hours later at around 10:30 AM this morning (Tuesday). Being a very mobile/portable tech oriented person, I was able to keep my computer and cell phone batteries charged using my 12 volt chargers and 110 volt inverter powered by the battery in My McVansion.

The one weird thing was the "extremely" loud thunder claps accompanying bright lightning flashes during the peak of the wind and sleeting. It was so loud that my friend, Carolyn, couldn't believe it was really thunder. We almost thought maybe the Earth was opening and swallowing up entire homes and blocks. My thoughts are that at that time we were at the juncture of where the Arctic cold front, the record low levels of barometric pressure of Sandy and the nor'easter were all converging at that particular time. I guess one could say this would be like a clash of the titans.

Bottom line for me is that this was a very weird experience. However, other then having a sticks and bricks roof over my head, this was a pretty good opportunity for me to try out a lot of my technology and techniques for living (whether in the van or in a solid structure) with minimal conveniences and infrastructure. And, as I said, it all worked out, for me at least, with minimal inconvenience and discomfort.

On the other hand, I've been able to watch the various news channels since the power returned. My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to those who have lost loved ones, homes, businesses, cars and all their belongings through floods, wind damage and fire. There are just too many stories to even begin to describe the pain so many people are experiencing as I compose this post.

While hurricane Katrina certainly wreaked havoc on New Orleans, other parts of Louisiana, Mississippi, Alabama and some outlying states, Sandy has impacted an estimated 60 million people living in some 23 states. And, the amazing thing is that the people in this region knew the storm was coming (as did the Gulf Coast) and, for the most part, prepared for it more aggressively then their fellow countrymen did for Katrina. And, of course, it was just about 14 months ago when much of the New York, New Jersey, Delaware, Maryland, DC and Pennsylvania region were significantly impacted by Hurricane Irene.  And, just a couple months later they were, again, clobbered by a very early and destructive winter storm event. How can anyone measure disasters like this?

If you've been following the news coverage at all, you know I've only scratched the surface of the destruction, devastation and economic impact this is going to cause, both to the individuals involved and the country. And all this, virtually, on the eve of one of the most important general elections of our lifetimes. I urge you all to vote if you're qualified and registered. I've already voted by absentee ballot and I know where I stand in this election. I'm not here to tell you who to vote for, but I am here to tell you to get out and vote - PERIOD.

I've been lucky throughout my life. I've never suffered any significant or devastating losses from events like those of the last 48 hours or so. But, these events do cause me to take pause and realize that even those of us who choose a "living free" lifestyle by our own definition are still part of the larger society of humanity. We need each other in various ways. "No man is an island . . ." John Donne. How do we come to the aid of our fellow humans?

So, another facet of my living free philosophy is to evaluate how I can best prepare myself to not only cope with natural disasters such as this one (that devastated my New Jersey home town region) in the future, but, also, how I can reach out and provide emergency assistance as a volunteer. Perhaps, this may be where I can reactivate my hobby and volunteer emergency communication experience as an amateur radio operator. Help anyway you can even if only through prayer, positive thoughts or making a phone call or dropping an email to check on any family member, friend or professional contact/colleague just to let them know you are thinking about them and their challenges. A little positive support will go a long way. A lot of people are counting on our support. 

Sunday, October 28, 2012

The Revenue Generating Road Trip . . .


I'm back in West Virginia just in time to prepare for a storm moving up the east coast of the U.S. that is alternately being called, an historic storm, a perfect storm and a storm like we've never seen before. So, some 60 million people are scrambling to evacuate regions that will be badly hit, stock up on food, water, batteries, obtain generators if they can find them and in general, hunker down for this monster storm. It's actually a combination of three storms all coming together to produce a storm that has wind and rain bands that span an area of about 1,000 miles in all directions. It's part Hurricane Sandy, part a Nor'easter and part - well, I'm not sure exactly, but it has to do with a high-pressure cold front coming in from the east. Wow! 

At any rate, at least I'm not actually traveling during this event. I'm basically hunkered down here in the little Cumberland Valley of West Virginia where I expect we'll see some serious rain and some gusty winds up to maybe 45 or 50 miles per hour.

Now, if I weren't here in West Virginia, I'd have loved to have been hunkered down in my 26th floor corner hotel room at the Swissotel where I was staying, courtesy of my client, in Chicago. Now, why would I have enjoyed being there through a storm like this? Well, check out these photos.
My room is on the corner of the front of the
triangular shaped building 26 floors up!












Yes! This where my revenue generating road trip took me, the Swissotel on N. Wacker Drive in Chicago. From my room I had a fantastic view of the Navy Pier and Lake Michigan as well as much of downtown and the Magnificent Mile.





It would have been exciting watching tropical storm force winds and rain from the security of my room with at least a 180 degree view of Chicago. Watching the turbulent waters of Lake Michigan and the rain filling the Chicago River, possibly to flood stage and seeing the forces of nature in all of its glory from a safe vantage point would have been awesome. Of course, much of Chicago has been raised about three levels up from the river, so only the lowest level would have potentially been flooded.

Of course, we went to our favorite Chicago hot dog place, Portillo's - and as you can see it was surrounded by one of the largest McDonald's I have ever seen, about a city block. Imagine the cost of that real estate. Also there was the Hard Rock Cafe and the Rain Forest Cafe all filling the four of the corners at Ontario and Clark.



Deeeelicious!


The road trip brought me to a 3 1/2 day conference that I've worked at before both last year and the year before. Essentially, our team (my former partner, Mike is the prime contractor) provided all the computer - Power Point - support for the 50 sessions and 75 to 80 presenters. We also provided all the recording services for all the sessions as well as monitoring the sound for all the keynote and concurrent breakout sessions. 

Mike provided also all the conference books with session information as well as other printed materials and signage for the various requirements. There were a few other services we also provided including the badges each participant had to wear for admission to the sessions and assembling many of the conference printed materials the participants received upon registration. Our team consisted of five people. Since Mike and I have had years of experience working at and running meetings like this, we play a major role in the entire process.

A typical breakout session 

A typical audio and recording set up - our digital recorders are the two
units on the right above the two microphones

The long hall in the Swissotel meeting area with three members of our team
at the far end of the hall between two of the four breakout rooms








































Our days began at (as we describe it) 0 Dark 30 on Monday - Wednesday. Sunday was an easy day of set up and monitoring three consecutive sessions in the afternoon and an opening party in the evening. We wrapped up on Wednesday and were checked out, had the Chevy Suburban packed and were on the road by 12:30 PM heading back to the east coast.



The drive back was broken up by an overnight stop in Ft. Wayne, Indiana at a large audio equipment and musical instrument dealer, Sweetwater, where I have bought some of my audio technology and Sweetwater has become one of Mike's clients buying CD/DVD duplication, printing and packaging from. We stopped at Sweetwater in the morning, after breakfast. 

Mike met with his buyer and I met with my sales rep and got a tour of their new (about three years old) state of the art facilities including three recording studios, demo rooms, a musical instrument showroom and a music academy. I also viewed their state of the art, automated warehouse from the observation window that overlooked the entire operation. They are in the process of doubling the size of the warehouse part of the operation. It was, of course, interesting to me and encouraging to see a business that appears to be thriving during this tough economic time.

After our visit to Sweetwater it was eastward bound and we again, chose to drive on Blue Highways for a good part of the drive across Indiana and Ohio until we reached Columbus. From that point it was interstate highway back through the rest of southeastern Ohio, two small parts of West Virginia and Pennsylvania, western Maryland and finally the end of the road for me when we finally reached Keyser, West Virgina (the third time entering West Virginia on the trip back).

Total trip was seven days. Revenue generated will supplement my lifestyle for about three months. All in all, a pleasant and worthwhile road trip. And as a side note, all of these photos were taken with my Android Motorola Atrix smart phone except for the restaurant photos that were taken with my regular, older DSLR Minolta Dimage Z6. Now, back to hunkering down for the approaching "perfect" storm.