I know you've been holding your breath waiting for the next
episode of 2014 Road Trek #1. Yes, we
left off in Florida at the Love Travel Center in Ormond Beach.
Day #11
I opened my baby blues on Thursday morning and prepared for
another day on the road. Today was going to be my day (or two) to enjoy Daytona
Beach. I have fond memories of Daytona Beach.
I spent a couple weeks of the summer of 1964 in Daytona on
the last vacation I ever took with my family (father, mother and two younger
sisters). We stayed in a motel on the beach. For some reason the El Caribe pops
up in my head, but to be honest, we're talking nearly a half-century ago. It
was also the summer, after diving into the motel swimming pool; I bashed my
nose into the bottom of the pool (still have the scar as a trophy) that led up
to me meeting a cute waitress at a local restaurant. Her name was Jane Kinsey
(that I remember positively) and she was a champion diver at her high school in
Daytona Beach. Yes, indeed, a real native Floridian girl with blond hair and
blue eyes and a surfer girl figure.
Yep! That's yours truly next to the pretty girl.
I was a scant 145 pounds soaking wet back then and I had dirty blond hair. This
photo is 49 1/2 years old. Obviously, it was done on film and whoever took it
had their finger over the lens partially. Needless to say, Jane made my
vacation a much more enjoyable experience. I went back to Daytona Beach the
next two summers (between my sophomore and junior and my junior and senior
years in college) to hang out with Jane. Lots of stories, but not for this
article.
Unfortunately, Daytona had changed a lot over the years. Not
so much in the way Atlantic Avenue looked, but in the amount of traffic which
had increased, even in the winter and one can no longer drive on the beach
without paying a stiff $5.00 fee for the privilege. It was either overcast or
raining most of the day and frankly, I actually became bored with the place.
So, I decided to move on down the coast.
The next challenge was finding a place
where I could park overnight in My McVansion. After some research and phone
calls I settled on the community of Titusville, despite the fact that there was
a no overnight parking ordinance in effect. I headed to the Walmart where the
woman I spoke with on the phone said they liked us RVer's; it was the city that
had their undies bunched up. But, she said the city very seldom enforced the
ordinance and I should be fine there. I drove down AIA along the coast whenever
possible and arrived in Titusville later that evening. I set up My
McVansion for sleeping duties and closed my peepers for the night.
Day #12
Friday was a nicer day and I called ahead to my friend,
Richard Rosen, about getting together later on Friday or on Saturday. Saturday
seemed the preferable choice and so we made a date. Besides seeing Richard, I
was planning to visit his brother Art Gliner, a friend and colleague of mine
for over 30 years. Unfortunately, Art was stricken by the early stages of some
form of dementia about six years earlier. Richard had helped Art and managed
his affairs until about two years ago when it seemed prudent to move Art to
Florida.
So, Friday was a relaxing day. I took my time heading
further down the coast. Richard lives in Sebastian, Florida. I passed
Port Canaveral where the Disney and Carnival cruise lines have terminals as
well as there being a freight terminal there.
I
decided to find a park along the beach to take care of some work.
I caught
some surfers in action . . .
and a Mickey
Mouse cruise ship from Port Canaveral sailed by.
Then I drove
through some of the space program communities that sprung up during the late
1950's and 60's around Cape Canaveral and the Kennedy Space Center. I
also did some research as far as a place to stay Friday night.
Once again, most all the communities in my direct path of travel
were not RVer friendly. But, I chose Vero Beach to take a chance on (turned out
to be a good bet). So, continuing down A1A as much as I could, I headed for
Vero Beach, the next town past Sebastian.
It turned out to be the right choice, again. I decided
that I had a taste for barbecue on this Friday evening. So, I began watching
for what I hoped would be a localized barbecue restaurant. Finally, as I was
driving into Vero Beach, such an establishment appeared from the dark of night.
It was time to fill the void in my stomach, which had begun growling by this
time.
Behold! Here is Woody's Barbecue.
It is a family style
restaurant with moderate prices and very good barbecue. I wouldn't rate it as
the best barbecue I've ever had, but it was much more than just good.
My
server, Heather, was with child. I inquired and she said it was to be her third
bundle of joy. Now, Heather didn't look old enough to be the mother of two,
soon to be three. She took good care of me.
The restaurant was busy and fairly
noisy with lots of kids livening up the atmosphere.
It didn't take very much
time for my order to come out and here is what I was presented with.
This was a
lot of food. There was barbecue chicken, turkey breast, ribs, beef brisket and
pork. Yes! I chose a sampler platter and tried all their different barbecue
sauces, too. When the smoke cleared, my plate was cleaned and I received my
check, I was presently surprised that it was quite economical for all the food
I received.
I left Woody's and was off to the "Walmart Motor
Inn" for another night of elicit rest since Vero Beach had an ordinance
against overnight parking. I settled in, shut my eyes and no one bothered me
all night.
Day #13
So, it's Day #13. I contacted my friend, Richard Rosen and
arranged a time to meet up and visit with my other friend and colleague (and
Richard's brother) Art Gliner. As I mentioned earlier, Vero Beach turned out to
be a perfect place to spend the night since my friend Art was in Vero Beach. I
didn't know that until Richard and I arranged to meet up.
At a few minutes after 11:00 AM I met Richard at The Place.
The Place is an assisted living community in Vero Beach and it's where my
friend, Art, now resides. It's a very nice place and provides a variety of
apartments for the various residents. I'm not sure of the full scope of the
residents, but at least some of them are dealing with Alzheimer's and other
forms of dementia, such as that which has befallen my friend, Art. It was both,
wonderful to see Art and sad at the same time.
Art is a very healthy looking man in his later 70's.
Unfortunately, a form of dementia began to set in about six or seven years ago.
Art is someone you can only describe as a self-made man. Born and raised in
the Bronx, New York City, he dropped out of high school and joined the Navy. He
most likely earned a GED sometime back during that early period of his life and
after the Navy he went to a broadcasting school and became a radio announcer.
Art had a great, soothing radio voice. Over his lifetime he worked as a radio
announcer/DJ/personality in several U.S. markets, eventually ending up in
Washington, DC where he ended his career as a classical radio announcer on the,
now, defunct WGMS AM & FM combination.
Along the way, Art became a student of humor and became very
active in both collecting all kinds printed, audio, film and video materials of
the great humorists and comedians of our time and archiving/cataloging all
these materials. He was also very careful with his financial resources and
founded the Gliner Center for Humor Studies at the University of Maryland. He
endowed the center and donated his entire cataloged humor collection to the
Center. Art was also a good friend with many well-known and lesser-known
humorists and humor authorities including Bob Orben, who was President Gerald
Ford's head of speech writing as well as a writer for many celebrity
humorist/comedians like Red Skelton and the author of tens of books on humor as
well as a highly acclaimed humor newsletter. He was a member of the National
Speakers Association for several decades (which is where I met Art) and a
charter member of the DC chapter of the NSA (formerly known as the National
Capitol Speakers Association).
So, when I stated that this was a sad time for me, it's
because I knew Art when he was sharp, witty and collaborative with so many of
us. He served with me on the planning committee of the Veteran Speakers
Retreat, an that has occurred each year for 26 years and of which I was the
coordinator of for the past 12 years, with Art's assistance for seven of those
years. Now, my friend didn't know who I was, though he was very friendly. He
can speak, but can't put together rational ideas and thoughts. He is unable to
make most basic decisions for himself. I can't imagine what it's like for him
to be a physically, fully functioning, healthy adult man, yet have a mind that
has failed and doesn't allow him to make the most basic decisions. Fortunately,
he probably doesn't realize any of this. And, he's very fortunate to have a
brother who has and continues to take great care of him and make all the
necessary decisions and choices for Art's welfare. I did enjoy a wonderful
lunch at a seaside restaurant with Art and his brother Richard. Richard is on the left and Art on the right. I'll remember
it as will Richard, unfortunately, Art will not.
Richard and I spent a couple more hours talking, not only
about Art, but some of our philosophical views and concerns about where our
country and society is heading at a lovely waterside park. We certainly didn't
solve the problems of the world, but at least we accept that they exist. After
we parted ways I determined that I was going to head down to Ft. Pierce,
Florida, the first RVer friendly community in the area. So, I headed south
about 16 miles to the "Walmart Motor Inn." Upon arrival I discovered
that this Walmart had about a dozen RVs and vandwellers at both ends of the
parking lot. For whatever reason, I chose the right end of the parking lot,
selected a space that appeared level and parked. There was a vandwelling young
woman, I believe her name was Joyce, parked there and she was chatting with a
French Canadian gentleman from Quebec who was vandwelling in a recent model,
white Dodge Grand Caravan mini-van. I joined in the conversation for a while.
Then we all went out own ways and I set up for the night. Shortly thereafter it
was time to close my peepers and say farewell to Saturday.
In the next article on this trek I'll fill you in on Days
#14 thru #18.
2 comments:
Great post Ed, just seeing the sky and sea and flora brings back warm mémoires for me. Sorry to hear about the condition of your friend, I hope you provided him at least a spark of the good times gone by.
I'll be continuing to "ride along" my friend.
Smooth roads and safe travels
~~Dan ~~
Thanks, Dan --
Glad you're enjoying the "ride along." I'm in Port Charlotte currently visiting another blog reader, parked outside his house listening to some great doo wop and checking the email. Life is good.
I did my best to jog my friend's memory, but nothing registered. I did my best to make the visit a pleasant experience for him. I wish I could say make it a memorable experience for him, but that doesn't seem possible any longer. There is just so much we don't understand about the human brain.
Cheers,
Ed
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